Occasionally we will be answering questions from our readers. It's good times because we love to boss people around and/or judge them. So, please ask away!
How sexy should a married lady dress for a girls night out? I love getting dressed up and am in great shape but I don't want to send the wrong message to dudes.
I'm happy to say that I never have this problem as my style, even dressed up, is quite repelling to most men. I'm going to leave this to the getters.
My guess is that you are hot. Don't worry about sending the wrong message to men, they are men. You could be in sweats with your hair in a chip clip and they would still get a boner. Dress for yourself. If you get that randy feeling inside when you look in the mirror, mission accomplished.
p.s. send pictures
Unless you plan on wearing a burka, at least a few men are going to get the wrong idea. When heading out the door in the most mundane of outfits (black turtleneck, jeans), my husband will ask me, "What's up with the hot sex outfit? Are you working on a sex farm today?" I always laugh and he repeatedly tells me that girls don't get it...it's not about what we wear. So wear what makes you feel happy and confident...you're really dressing for your girlfriends anyway.